
ATTRACTION INSTINCT
in a nutshell:
Our Attraction Instinct motivates us to look and feel attractive.
Our Attraction Instinct is satisfied when:
We feel attractive and wanted.
When it's not satisfied:
It will make us flirt to get attention, or pout.
Given unlimited resources:
It will motivate us try to look 20 years old forever.

As Providers
It makes us unable to keep jobs.
We are much to self focused to be able to provide
a service to others. It makes us lousy employees,
and so we are often borrowing money from our friends.
As Partners
It makes us always look good.
But, it also makes us attract unwanted attention from others,
which often causes problems with our partners.
As Friends
It makes us usually bond with other people
who don't think beyond the surface.
Our friendships are tricky, as we usually see people
of the opposite sex as targets,
and people of our own sex as competition.
In Bed
Probably the most boring partner to be naked with.
Our Attraction Instinct makes us distracted
by wondering if our partner thinks our butt is too fat.
We can be too self-absorbed to be attentive to
someone else's' needs. Or even enjoy the moment.